Even When the Kettle’s Bare

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Some paths are quieter than others—but walking them together makes all the difference. Today reminded me of the quiet weight that comes with being the one others turn to. I spoke with both of my daughters—separately, at different points in the day. One needed advice, the kind only a mother can give when life feels uncertain. The other’s voice held something heavier, and when I asked, she let it spill: relationship strain, financial stress, the kind of ache that’s hard to name out loud. I listened. I offered what I could—words, perspective, a little steadiness. And later, I followed up. Not because I had to, but because I know how it feels to be left holding something alone. They each thanked me. They each made a move forward. And I felt that familiar flicker of peace—the kind that comes from knowing you were able to help. But beneath that peace, there’s a quieter ache. The kind that surfaces when you’re still navigating your own storm, and yet you find yourself pouring from a cup that’...
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🍂 Tea With Honey’s Cozy Fall Bucket List

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Because sweater weather deserves more than just pumpkin spice.

As the leaves begin to rustle with change and the air shifts to that perfect blend of crisp and comforting, fall arrives with its gentle invitation: slow down, settle in, and savor the moment. For me, autumn isn’t just a season—it’s a soft-spoken friend who reminds me to nest, nurture, and sip my way through life’s transitions (with extra honey, of course).

This year, between house renovations and preparing for a grandbaby, I’m embracing the season like never before. And just in case you need a nudge to add more cozy to your calendar, here’s my go-to list for a soulful, snuggly fall.


🕯️ Home & Hearth Delights

Create a Cozy Tea Nook

  Rearrange a corner with plush pillows, rustic mugs, and your favorite fall blends. This is your “permission to pause” station.


Try a DIY Fall Wreath  

  Use dried florals, ribbon, or even leftover fabric scraps. Let it reflect the story your home is telling this season.


Light a Signature Seasonal Candle

  Go for scents like apple bourbon, cinnamon clove, or smoked cedar. One flick of the flame and suddenly—autumn lives here.


Thrift a Treasure for the Mantel

  Find one charming, weathered piece that makes you smile. Bonus points if it’s something your future grandchild will ask about someday.


🍁 Outdoor Adventures

Visit a Farm Stand or Pumpkin Patch

  Fresh cider, gourds with personality, and maybe a photo or two for a “Rustic Reflections” moment.


Walk Just to Crunch Leaves 

  No destination, just crunch therapy for the soul. Nature’s way of saying, “Let go.”


Host a Fireside Evening 

  A few friends, a few blankets, a pot of warm cider. Don’t forget the mismatched mugs.


Snap Foliage Photos for Future Mood Boards

  Whether you're designing a nursery or curating HazelBerries, let nature inspire your aesthetic.


🎨 Creative Moments & Connection

Make a Gratitude Garland

  Cut paper leaves and write one thing you’re grateful for each day. Hang it near your tea nook for extra joy.


Write a Letter to Your Grandbaby

  What does fall feel like in your world? What will it feel like in theirs?


Share Your Fall Playlist

  Bonus points if it’s a mix of acoustic coffeehouse tunes, vintage soul, and a few cheeky pop hits.


Design a Cozy Room Using Only What You Own

  Rearranging is the new redecorating. Challenge yourself to create warmth without spending a dime.


🍂 💌 Wrap-Up

Fall comes and goes quickly, but the memories we craft now echo long after the last leaf drops. So light the candle, fluff the pillows, and invite coziness to settle in like an old friend.

Tell me, what’s on *your* cozy fall bucket list? Share your rituals, rediscoveries, and moments of magic in the comments below—and stay tuned for HazelBerries seasonal picks and some nursery theme fun headed your way soon! 🍵🍂🧡

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