The Room Reset Ritual: Teaching Kids to Tend Their Space (Without Losing Your Mind)

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The Room Reset Ritual:  Teaching Kids to Tend Their Space  (Without Losing Your Mind) Method One: The Teamwork Tidy (Ages 5+) This isn’t just about cleaning—it’s about co-creating a space that feels peaceful, proud, and lived in. Here’s how we do it: 🗑 Step 1: The Trash Bag Sweep Walk into the room together with a trash bag. Do a once-over. Anything obviously broken, torn, or trash-worthy? Gone. This sets the tone: we’re clearing space for what matters. 🧾 Step 2: One Task at a Time Give your child a single, clear task—like picking up all the papers. While they do that, you (or a sibling) tackle the clothes. When that’s done, move on: Child: books, coloring books, notebooks You/other child: board games, electronics, random bits 🧱 Step 3: The LEGO Game Make it fun. Whoever builds the funniest animal out of the Legos they find gets to pick the post-cleaning snack. (You’ll be amazed what a snack incentive can do.) 🧸 Step 4: Big Toys + Letting Go Time to sort ...
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Welcome to Tea with Honey: Parenting Wisdom, Served Hot

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If parenting came with an instruction manual, I imagine it would be written in disappearing ink—because just when you think you’ve figured things out, kids have a way of rewriting the rules.  

That’s where *Tea with Honey* comes in. I’m here to share the kind of parenting advice that comes from experience—the lessons learned, the mistakes made, and the “I told you so” moments I try not to gloat about (too much).  

Raising kids isn’t always neat. It’s messy, loud, and occasionally covered in applesauce. But through all the chaos, there’s joy, laughter, and the kind of wisdom that only time can brew.  

So grab a cup, settle in, and let’s talk parenting—without the sugarcoating, but always with love.  

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